Sharing stories from others who believe self-care is foundational to their best self
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Self-care to me is defined as the practice of taking an active role in protecting, improving, or preserving one’s own physical and mental well-being to promote happiness. I love this definition because it implies that self-care is PROACTIVE and that you have to take an initiative and be active in the role of your own health. I also like it because it implies that it does not necessarily have to be an act of improving but can also be an act of preserving what already exists within us. Nobody controls your own well-being, health, and happiness more than you and you should not rely on anyone else to do it.
Self-care to me means filling up your own cup before trying to help fill up anyone else’s cup. Self-care is about taking an ACTIVE role in your mental and physical health and well-being to create the best version of you. You simply cannot take care of anyone else well if you are not well yourself mentally or physically.
Self-care for me includes things that improve my mental and physical health and wellbeing. I mainly focus on tasks that improve my body or mind in more ways than one. Tasks that for me personally truly make me feel more confident, feel good in my skin, and release those feel good hormones and endorphins. These things include:
- Movements: workouts, yoga, walks, runs, stretches at least daily
- Getting adjusted at least 2 times a week
- Getting massages at least monthly
- Self-help or motivational empowering books, podcasts, quotes at least daily
- Candle Lit Bubble Baths at least biweekly
- Jam Session as needed
- Hair Done
- Buying a new clothing item (careful on this one)
- Meditation/Diaphragmatic Breathing
I can tell when I need a bit more self-care in my life when I start to notice my mean girl and inner critic kicking up her volume. Negative self-talk, negative thoughts and behaviors start to show their colors in my life when I have not taken care of me. I think this is my body’s way of trying to grab my attention. I quickly turn to want to blame others or things just don’t seem to be going “right”. That’s when I know I need some self-care and self-love. It’s a sign I have neglected areas of myself and body.
This is tricky, I would say motivational or self-help books, podcasts, or quotes. It truly begins my day right each day with positivity and motivation and it keeps my brain and mind sharp.
A very simple essential and affordable self-care tool is Diaphragmatic breathing. You don’t need anything but a few quite minutes to yourself and your breath. It’s actually been shown that diaphragmatic breathing physically reduces your cortisol (stress) levels.
MADE WITH LOVE AND CARE
We are continually talking with people about self-care and what they are doing for themselves. If you would like to share your story about self-care, we'd love to chat. Please don't hesitate to contact us!